A good deed is its own reward

There's nothing like a snowstorm to bring out the best in folks. On the most bitter, wintry day of the year, my heart is warmed by the goodwill of some Fair Haven boys. This morning, my 16-year-old neighbor insisted on helping us dig out from the biggest snow dumping of the season. The snow was wet and heavy, he and my husband were dripping with perspiration, but they worked companionably, and their goodnatured laughter echoed across the frozen garden. When the driveway and paths were cleared, our neighbor refused to take the money my husband offered him.

"No, no, no … really, I'm happy to help," he waved away the bills.

I'm delighted that my 12-yearold son is also learning this lesson of goodwill and generosity. Knollwood School in Fair Haven has a wonderful "Be a Good Neighbor" program through which kids volunteer to shovel snow for those who need help. After each storm, my son and his two friends diligently trek to the house of an elderly couple a few blocks away and clear the snow for them. Often our 8-year-old will tag along to help too. Many hands do make light work, and the boys return home in no time, eager for a cup of hot chocolate with extra marshmallows.

In a time when discouraging news is the norm, it's uplifting to notice and recognize the many small moments of goodwill and generosity that are all around us. When you reach out to others in need, you're filling your own spiritual tank. These boys are learning that the satisfaction and pleasure of doing a good deed is often the greatest reward of all.
Kate Appezzato
Fair Haven